There is a quote from unknown said that enthusiasm makes ordinary people extraordinary. It’s a quiet spiritual strength, an inner glow, a faith in action and tramples over prejudice. It is a strong quote that enabled YOU within a motivation, spirit and energy to move forward and gain the goals.

Enthusiasm and apathy have played a big role to the success of your achievement. Both of them have affected your moods and motivation in giving an action and having the progress. The more YOU are an apathy person, the delayed your progress and the longer YOU achieve your goals. So does the reverse. The more YOU enthusiasm, the more progress you have made, the closer your achievement to your goals.

Are YOU considering yourself as an enthusiasm or an apathy person? Do YOU feel apathy sometimes or on and on? How did YOU manage your apathy? Did YOU just accept it, struggle with it or work around it? Have YOU discussed with yourself, asking why your apathy is happened and what have made YOU feel that? Would YOU agree if apathy is started from less of motivation, interest and passion? Sounds there are many question that made you interesting, don’t YOU? Ok, let us discuss it further by exploring more to the definition of enthusiasm and apathy.

The first comprehensive dictionary of the English language, defines enthusiasm as “a vain belief of private revelation; a vain confidence of divine favor or communication.” In current English vernacular the word simply means intense enjoyment, interest, or approval.  People who fall into this modern definition of “enthusiasts” are adventurous, constantly busy with many activities with all the energy. Enthusiasm provides great excitement, interest in a subject craze, excitement and strong liking for something.

Enthusiasm is a big part of motivation and positive attitudes which help the clients get the idea, endless the options and achieve excellence. This makes a big difference to the end result. It is important to have a positive attitude to achieve excellence. How much is mental and how much is physical? Does it really matter? Both parts play a very important role and neither should be neglected.

Enthusiasm has motivated YOU to move forward and do action. Enthusiasm has driven your energy to have a positive thinking in doing something or in achieving the goals.

Hi everyone, I am kind of exciting to discuss the emotional intelligence recently. What about you? What my understanding, emotional intelligence is the discovery process that give us a choice in how we respond to emotions. Each of us takes in information from the world around us through the five senses. Everything we see, smell, hear, taste and touch travels through the body in the form of electrical signals. These signals pass from cell to cell until they reach their ultimate destination, the brain.

I am sure all of us experience the emotional response to an event first means that our primary feelings are strong motivators of behavior. Have you ever practice the emotional intelligence? How does it feel to you?

Emotional intelligence is the something in each of us that is a bit intangible. It defines how we manage behavior, navigate social complexities, and make personal decisions that achieve positive results.

Emotional intelligence taps into a fundamental element of human behavior that is distinct from your intellect. There is no known connection between IQ and EQ; you simply can’t predict emotional intelligence based on how smart someone is. Cognitive intelligence, or IQ, is not flexible. Emotional intelligence, on the other hand, is a flexible skill that is readily learned.

Daniel Coleman on his Emotional Intelligence book stated that your emotional intelligence is greatly affected by your ability to keep this road well traveled. The more you think about what you are feeling, and do something productive with that feeling, the more this pathway develops.

Most lapses in emotional intelligence come from a simple lack of understanding. Harnessing the power of emotional intelligence at work and home is no longer a choice. In order to be successful and fulfilled today, you must learn to maximize these skills, for it is those who employ a unique blend of reason and feeling who achieve the greatest results.

Well, it sounds interesting, doesn’t it? What do you think? Looking forward for your insight thought

Hi Everyone! First time when YOU read my question : Are YOU an optimist person at all the times, how do YOU feel? What’s the first YOU feeling impression to that question?

Let me be honest with YOU. I believe that every one of YOU wants to be physically healthy and I am sure that YOU want to be mentally healthy as well. Then, the question to you is that the true in measuring of “mental fitness” is how optimistic you are about yourself and your life?

In this session, I would like YOU learning how to control your thinking in very specific ways so that YOU feel terrific about yourself and your situation, no matter what happens.

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Do YOU know the basic difference in the reactions between optimists and pessimists? The first difference is that the optimist sees a setback as temporary, while the pessimist sees it as permanent. The optimist sees an unfortunate event, such as an order that falls through, as a temporary event, something that is limited in time and that has no real impact on the future. The pessimist, on the other hand, sees negative events as permanent, as part of life and destiny.

My next Powerful Question for YOU is…..are YOU an optimist person at all the time, my friends? Time to be honest with yourself and make your best decision to gain your best live

Hi everyone,

Today, I am kind of developing my coaching model and power tools which is in the weekend. Then, something just come up into my mind that I feel a full of energy eventhough I know that I have a lot things to do.

Then I asked my self, how this things happened? I mean, how I have a lot of energy to accomplished my work? The small voice but very nice and wise, said to me that this is because I don’t wait for moods. Wow, I feel stronger and passionate with that voice. Then I said, that’s right. This is the secret. I don’t wait for moods.

I have a thought that “mood has a strong effect to our emotion and accomplishment”. What do you think? I have practiced my self that when I don’t wait for moods, I accomplished something. Anytime when I wait for moods, I accomplish nothing. Then I come up with the conclusion and principal that my mind must know it has got to get down to work.

What do you think? Do you realize how strong the moods affect to our spirit on the daily life? Do you know that dealing with moods has driven the postponing and delaying of the accomplishment. Onething that I acknowledge is that if we are the moody person, we will accomplish nothing. Not only that, it is also make the emotion up and down.

Well, how do you feel now? Still wait for moods? I don’t thinks so. It is time to move forward, my friends

Of all base passions, fear is the most accursed.

William Shakespeare

You are the owner of our mind, feeling the fear or brave it is depending how we deal with it. The more you balance your feeling and mind, the closer you are as self-mastery.

 Ainy Fauziyah  

Do you feel fears or anxiety sometimes or on and on? How did you manage your fears? Did you just accept it, struggle with it or work around it? Have you discussed with yourself, asking why your fears or anxiety is happened and what have made you feel that? If I said that nothing in life is to be feared but it is only to be understood would you agree that? Well, it’s sound I have too many questionsJ. Ok, let’s discuss it.

First and foremost, I would like you assessed yourself and understand that you always have a choice about how to respond to and deal with fear. You can cave into it, struggle with it, accept it, or work around it. You always have a choice, a choice you can make again and again or that you can change based on your assessment of what is best for you.  

Based on your assessment, what has made you in fears? Is it about panic and confusion; saving face; triggers avoidance of the facts; magnifies danger and vulnerability; you want to stop in doing something or originates in your ego mind?

Second, fear is only to be understood. To understood your fears, you need to shift your mind from thinking : 

It is helpful to realize that not all fears are created equal. W. Timothy Gallwey and Robert Kriegel devote an entire chapter to two kinds of fear in their book; Inner Skiing which they call the first feeling magnifies danger and vulnerability while minimizing your sense of competence.  

The second feeling is mobilizing your whole being for effective action. It includes a series of marvelous physiological changes that prepare the body for peak performance. The second feeling has focused attention, provided adrenaline for extraordinary effort, and sharpened. It also promotes effective action while the first feeling paralyzes us and prevents action.

Third, let go of all the ways you may have stifled its messages to you. Please do not keep yourself stuck by looking for perfection on this point. All that is needed is that you make a beginning by acknowledging the ways that you turn away from your body’s wisdom and affirming that you are willing to be different. You do not need to know how you will change this, only that you desire to do so. You can transform the way you deal with fear by simply holding from day to day a curious wondering.

Fourth, I am waiting your action and practice. Do it now or you would waste your life time. Please send me your good news and I am pleased to discuss with you further.

“You may never know what results come from your action. But if you do nothing, there will be no result.”

– Mahatma Gandhi

Who is Mahatma Gandhi? Mohandas Gandhi, known by the honorific title Mahatma (“great souled”), embodied the power of nonviolent protest to achieve great change. He was born in India in 1896 and awoke to discrimination while practicing law in South Africa. He brought the struggle for equality back to India, rousing the population to demand self-rule from the British. He was profoundly religious, spending one day a week in complete silence; he was also a devout vegetarian. He was assassinated in 1948.

Mohandas Gandhi, known by the honorific title Mahatma (“great souled”) once wrote: “Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”You only feel truly happy when you are thinking, you are saying and you are doing in harmony. Helen Keller, an American author said that “When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.”

Have you realized that the greatest need of the human being is for a sense of meaning and purpose in life? As I discussed previously on this website within topic How Important Is Your Goals Setting, I emphasize that goals give you a sense of meaning and purpose. Goals give you a sense of direction. As you move toward your goals you feel happier and stronger. You feel more energized and effective. You feel more confident and competent in yourself and your abilities. Every step you take toward your goals increases your belief that you can set and achieve even bigger goals in the future.

Let me tell you honest. I was working hard myself to find the simple and best way to make my own life happiness. I have read many books, discussed with friends and asked the advisers, till finally I have found my powerful recipes to make my happiness own life. I call it my happiness powerful secret.

Do you want to know my happiness powerful secret? All right, I am happy to share with you anytime. I have practiced the steps below for many years and I have proved myself that asking myself, being honest, say it many times and practice it are the most powerful steps that you could do it. It is so simple, so easy and so powerfulJ. So, are you ready to make your own happy life?  Let’s do it now mateJ.

First, Ask Your Self. Each of us would like to be happiness. Happiness is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal life. You only feel truly happy when you are making progress, step-by-step, toward something that is important to you.-The question is when you want to be happiness, have you asked yourself what do you want into your life? What purposes are you aiming at? Where do you want to end up at the end of the day? Then, after you ask yourself, have you found the answer? More people today fear change, and worry about the future, than at any other time in our history.

Second, Be Honest With Your Self. Do you believe if I say that you are inborn potential and extraordinary? You have within you, right now, the ability to achieve almost any happiness that you can set for yourself. Your greatest responsibility to yourself is to invest the whatever time is required to become absolutely clear about exactly what it is you want, and how you can best achieve it. The more honest you have answered your questions, the more of your potential you will unleash for good in your life.

Third, Say It. Once you answer your questions honestly, then you need to say it. You could do it by yourself. You could do it by saying it in front of the mirror, before you go to sleep, after you wake up in the morning. Or, you could say it by having well and relax chat with friends or anybody you have trusted with. When you say it, there is a process between yourself expression and promise. By saying many times, you have promised to yourself that you do that.

Fourth, Practice and Do It In A Harmony. When I said do it in harmony, then please do so. Do not push yourself too hard into it. Push yourself too hard into it will only make you in the difficult situation and will be far from your expectation, to make your own life happiness. When you feel that you push yourself too hard, then the powerful word that you should say is I am on my way to be happiness life. What I have done, what I have learned. There is always light and I am closer to my future.

Last, I am happy to have your good news, having your own life happiness. Keep your spirit to have your own life happiness J.

“Dreams come true. Without that possibility, nature would not incite us to have them.”

– John Updike

Who is John Updike? John Updike, the Pulitzer Prize–winning American novelist known for his careful craftsmanship and small-town settings, has published more than 60 books to date. He was born in 1932 in Pennsylvania. As a child he suffered from stammering and was encouraged by his mother to write. After college, he joined The New Yorker as a regular contributor. He is best known for his series of novels about a fictional alter ego, including Rabbit, Run and Rabbit at Rest. He lives in Massachusetts.

“You are the owner of your mind, feeling the fear or brave it is depending how we deal with it. The more you balance your feeling and mind, the closer you are as self-mastery.”

Ainy Fauziyah